On April 8th 2017, I finally did the damn thing! I FREAKING BIG CHOPPED! I slid in a uber from my apartment teary eyed and went all the way uptown after work, to my boo Navaisha's salon, and was ready to go under the clippers. I knew at that very moment, I was making the biggest decision of my life. Cutting off all of my hair for a fresh start would be extremely risky, but damn right, I was willing to take the chance. I couldn't wait another day longer. I had to do it at that very moment, where the fine line between passion and purpose was caving in on me.

I know myself well enough, that when my spirit or intuition is telling me something, or rather YELLING to grab my attention. ACT ON IT. ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT. DON'T IGNORE IT.

And indeed, I did, Every strand, that fell from my head, was like a layer of skin shedding off of me. I was permanently letting it all go. I was letting go of all the baggage I was holding onto, and brought along with me into the newyear. This included a list of

  • past emotions
  • soul ties
  • insecurities
  • doubts
  • fear

just to name a few. I found myself unhappy, with my damaged fro, that clients were raving over. Maybe "it" was in, or maybe "it" was not, but I knew one thing for sure, It no longer served me. It was time to close that very chapter. So here it is, my very first i-talk and big chop video, revealing it all! I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I feel free. I feel lighter. I feel beautiful. To all of the ladies that are considering a chop, I would totally encourage you to go for it. I no longer myself have anything to hide behind.


Xo - I ♡